Well I have been very busy of late, I've taken to reconnecting with some of my old friends.

I've been flitting around hanging out with a bunch of my new and old friends and i have realized something. I have great friends.

Alot of the people I know live these 'Cool' lives. They drop out, move out, and never stop moving. I watch their hectic lives, never calm for even one second, and I realise that they may seem cool on the surface but inside they hate themselves and their lives.

Most of my friends are seeking independance from their parents, authority, or other dominating powers in their lives. They are afriad that they will turn into those people, that they too will become boring, oppressive, and unsatisfied with what they have done.

I welcome the idea that I will one day have children, because I realise what many people will never see. It's not about power and domination, it really is about love.

In extreme cases love can be what causes the traumatization of a child, in the 'I was doing it to protect you', or the 'Everything I do is for love' Stuations.

In most cases, love causes you to hate and struggle against your parents and teachers. You don't want their constraints and openly chaff against them. But nobody realises that if they sat down and tlaked out why they want to expreience, just sit down and have a chat about your motives, they would see your reasoning and loosen the reins.

So people, hear me out! Every once and again, sit down and have a talk about what you dislike and would like more. Don't fight, don't raise your voice, and especially don't start insulting. Treat your your authority figures like people, not slave-drivers, and they will respect you more for the attempt.

Even if you don't get what you want, you can still come away victorious. and I guarantee you will feel better.

I'm off for the day, I hope my advice has helped.